Welcome to the book of Philemon. Just 335 words in the original, Philemon is about redemption and relationships. It’s about how the gospel transforms our relationships by creating true and meaningful fellowship with one another. Below is an outline summary of the sermon for your further study and deeper reflection.
SERIES: Philemon: Redemption and Relationships
TEXT: Philemon 1:1-7
TITLE: Got Fellowship?
PREACHER: Derek Overstreet
BIG IDEA: Fellowship is a powerful blessing God calls every believer to flourish in.
SERMON EXCERPTS:
All quotes, and text emphasis, are taken directly from the pastor’s notes.
”Just 335 words in the original, Philemon is the third shortest book in the Bible. Only 2 and 3 John are shorter. Paul wrote Philemon around the same time he wrote Colossians and Ephesians, 62 AD.”
“It’s different than Colossians and Ephesians. As you read it, you won’t find Paul arguing grand theology. You won’t see him connecting the Christological dots of the gospel to OT promises. You won’t find Paul using his apostolic authority to shape local church polity and liturgy. Philemon is a Christian speaking to a Christian about a personal matter. In a sense, it’s Colossians fleshed out in a real-life situation.”
“Paul intercedes for Onesimus, a slave who has deserted his master, Philemon. Paul crossed paths with Onesimus in Rome, shared the gospel with him, and now he sends him back to Philemon with this letter.”
“Philemon is about redemption and relationships. It’s about how the gospel transforms our relationships by creating true and meaningful fellowship with one another.”
“Verse 1 makes it clear that Paul is writing this letter. Equally clear is who he is writing it to. First, he mentions Philemon, the primary recipient of the letter.”
“Philemon lived in Colossae and was part of the church there. We don’t know when he became a believer, but 19 suggests he was saved under Paul’s ministry. Our text makes it clear that Philemon was a church pillar, serving and hosting. It’s clear from this letter that, unlike most in the Colossians church, Philemon knew Paul and labored in the gospel with him in some way.”
“Paul also greets Apphia, probably Philemon’s wife, and Archippus, possibly a leader in the church, but probably Philemon’s son. Paul’s letter concerns matters in Philemon’s household, so including Philemon’s family would make sense. Paul thought highly of Archippus, encouraging him to fulfill his ministry in Colossians 4:17 and referring to him as our fellow soldier. If Archippus was Philemon’s son, the picture here is beautiful: A young man on fire for God serving in his parent's church. The next generation laboring side-by-side, ready to take the helm. It reminds us of what we are building for here at SGC on the west and east side.”
“Speaking of the church, Paul ends by greeting the church at the end of 2—and the church in your house. So Paul is writing to Philemon about a personal matter, but he is doing it very publicly.”
“Paul finishes his greeting in 3, reminding everyone what has brought them together and what binds them together—the grace and peace of God in Jesus Christ. Every word that follows is an outworking of the gospel that now defines their existence, including the heartfelt appeal Paul is about to make to Philemon.”
“Paul now turns his attention to Philemon. The you’s and your’s from 4 to 21 are singular, meaning Paul speaks directly to Philemon. You can imagine Tychicus reading this letter to the church, repeatedly lifting his eyes to look directly at Philemon. You could probably hear a pin drop.”
“Paul isn’t trying to publicly pressure Philemon. The personal and public nature of this letter speak to the nature and centrality of what Paul is about to commend Philemon to—true fellowship. The first thing Paul does is pour out his gratitude for Philemon.”
“It reads a bit more awkward here, but Paul is commending Philemon for the same thing he commended the church for in Colossians 1.”
“Philemon was an exemplary man of faith. Paul has nothing bad to say or correct about Philemon. His faith in Jesus was strong. He loved the Lord. He longed to please God with his life. And that love and zeal for God bubbled out into his relationships. He loved the church. He loved his brothers and sisters in Christ. He was known for the fruit of the Spirit that should characterize everyone saved and indwelt by the Spirit, a gospel cause and effect according to 1 John 3:14—We know that we have passed out of death into life, because we love the brothers.”
“Whatever strengths Philemon had - Bible knowledge, business skills, or maturity in wisdom - his faith in Jesus and love for the church stood out the most, and all Paul could do was say—Thank you, God!”
“Now, in 6, Paul shifts his prayer from what he sees to what he hopes. This is the key verse in our text. It’s also the most difficult. It sounds like Paul has Philemon’s personal evangelism in mind—the sharing of your faith may become effective. The sharing of faith here is not evangelism—it’s biblical fellowship. Sharing your faith with those in the faith. Sharing your love for and life in Christ with other believers.”
“The word Paul uses for sharing is koinonia. It means fellowship, partnership, or sharing. It communicates the shared life believers have together. It’s the word used to describe the intimate nature of the early church in Acts 2 and the Philippian's devotion to Paul and his ministry in Philippians 1:6.”
“You can’t manufacture koinonia; the gospel creates it. You can’t have this fellowship with your unbelieving friends because it’s rooted in your identity in Christ. Koinonia is between believers— sharing your faith with those in the faith—love, encouragement, forgiveness, correction, learning, burdens, patience, friendship, hope, interdependence—all the blessings we have in Christ, we share with one another, not just intellectually or in theory, but experientially. That’s koinonia. That’s biblical fellowship.”
“You could say it this way: I pray your experience of our shared life together, because of our common faith in Christ, will bring you into a deeper understanding and experience of the blessings we have as a result of our union with Christ for the glory of Christ.”
“Why is Paul praying this way? Paul is about to ask Philemon to do something unheard of, unnatural, and counter-cultural in his day—welcome back his runaway slave, who is now a believer in complete forgiveness as a fellow brother and co-laborer in Christ. Only the power of the gospel is sufficient for this. So Paul prays that the fellowship Philemon knows to be God’s will for and goodness toward His church will now be freely extended to Onesimus, whose life is now bound up in fellowship with Jesus; therefore, his life is now bound up in fellowship with Philemon and the rest of the church.”
“Paul prepares Philemon by drawing his attention to God’s will and his experience of God’s will for His church. Paul’s prayer precedes his appeal because he knows Onesimus’s return to Colossae will be a true test of gospel union and fellowship in Philemon’s home and the Colossians church.”
“We are saved by grace alone, through faith alone, in Christ alone. But we are not alone. The Christian life is personal but not private. When we are joined to Christ, we are joined to one another. In a society that prizes individualism, that can be hard to embrace.“
“It’s easy to think about the church as a voluntary group of people who meet on Sundays because they share the same doctrinal beliefs or ministry paradigms. But the most intimate expression of our doctrine and the most powerful testimony to our ministry is our fellowship with one another.”
“God uses our mutual fellowship to strengthen our faith, conform us to Christ, lighten our burdens, enlarge our sense of awe and wonder of Christ, and shine as a bright light in our dark world. Koinonia is a powerful thing.”
“If Paul knew our church I know he would say the same thing, even calling some of you out by name. The question remains: Are you in fellowship? The path to meaningful fellowship doesn’t have to be complicated or intimidating. Start with your church family. Start small.”
“Biblical fellowship is a powerful blessing. Fellowship expresses our dependence upon one another. Fellowship is central to our partnership. That is not a SGC thing; it’s a gospel thing. It’s a Bible thing. It’s a God thing. Got fellowship? If not, you are missing out in a big way on what God has for you.”
ADDITIONAL SCRIPTURE:
Colossians 1:3-4
1 John 1:3
QUOTES:
David Garland - “Paul is referring to the mutuality of Christian life which springs from a common participation in the body of Christ. Shared faith in Christ has a bonding character and welds us to others who share the same experience of faith.”
David Garland - “The spiritual well-being of the congregation will always be demonstrated publicly by the well-being of its social relationships. The reconciliation of a disloyal slave with his master as brothers in Christ speaks volumes to the community within and without. It demonstrates how Christian faith recasts all relationships and how Christ reconciles all things to himself.”
APPLICATION:
There’s one big question for us today: Got Fellowship?
- What do you see most in others? What makes you say—Thank you, God!—when someone comes to mind?
- Are you in fellowship? Do others know you, and do you know others in your church? Not simply by name, but do you spiritually KNOW them, and do they spiritually KNOW you?
Come to church early and stay late so you can get to know people. Rushing in late and rushing out early doesn’t help.
Grab a lunch after church with someone.
Open your home.
Accept the invitation into someone else’s home.
Join a CG, a context to share life your life in Christ—the ups and downs, good and bad, triumphant and tragic—with fellow believers.
- We’re all busy, the question is, What am I busy with? But if Fellowship is a powerful blessing God calls every believer to flourish in, then we must make time for our brothers and sisters in Christ. We need to be busy with koinonia.
SONGS FROM THIS SUNDAY:
Our Song From Age To Age
How Vast The Love
The Steadfast Love of Christ
God Is Faithful (Psalm 114)
Reformation Song
NEXT WEEK’S PASSAGE:
Philemon 1:8-20
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